As the American writer Rita Mae Brown said: ‘A peacefulness follows any decision, even the wrong one.’ And what is wrong depends.
Sometimes things just simply don’t happen. Things that could take you where you want to be. Impediments, in many cases, have a psychological reason. Knowing it can help you address the problem.
The opposite of disagreement is not agreement. It is the consensus. If we only look for a possible intersection (probably out of more than one), we will not certainly find the ideal one.